Q: There is this girl that likes me, and I am not sure if I like her back. She is a really great person. Yet, for some reason I am not attracted to her. Sometimes we have a great time, and sometimes I cannot stand her. She has all the qualities that I look for in a wife, yet I am not ready to settle down at all. Should I keep her on the side until I know I am ready? Or should I just tell her to move on?
A: Without attraction I would say that it is a lost cause. I don’t think it is neither fair to keep her on the side, nor is it fair to you. It will then become a headache thinking of excuses. My advice: sit down and talk with her very maturely; tell her how you feel. It will help her move on and give you closure. If she really likes you she might become hurt and become emotional, but you need to understand that she will move on eventually.
While discussing relationships and men over a few glasses of wine, a few of my girlfriends and I came up with a few ideas about dating Middle Eastern Men. Of course we all had out differences in opinion, but here are some DO's and DON'T's of dating ME men for those of you who are confused. Have fun reading..."
The other night I went out with some girls to an interesting lounge.. This place was like a nesting ground for Arab-American young men trying to find a girl they could “pick up.” One of them was trying to “hit on” my friend all night; turns out he was engaged! He basically is having an arranged marriage to a girl his parents set him up with back in the Middle East.