BRINGIN' LIKE BACK

Q: There is this girl that likes me, and I am not sure if I like her back. She is a really great person. Yet, for some reason I am not attracted to her. Sometimes we have a great time, and sometimes I cannot stand her. She has all the qualities that I look for in a wife, yet I am not ready to settle down at all. Should I keep her on the side until I know I am ready? Or should I just tell her to move on?

A: Without attraction I would say that it is a lost cause. I don’t think it is neither fair to keep her on the side, nor is it fair to you. It will then become a headache thinking of excuses. My advice: sit down and talk with her very maturely; tell her how you feel. It will help her move on and give you closure. If she really likes you she might become hurt and become emotional, but you need to understand that she will move on eventually.

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